Wake Up Abundant

How to Cultivate Confidence

Episode Summary

Today's 7-Minute Reset: We're talking about confidence - one of the 3 C's (confidence, clarity, certainty) that you need to master for abundance. I'm not the most confident person, but I am determined, and that's taught me that you need confidence to feel chosen, to believe what you say matters, and to go after what you want.

Episode Notes

Today's 7-Minute Reset: We're talking about confidence - one of the 3 C's (confidence, clarity, certainty) that you need to master for abundance. I'm not the most confident person, but I am determined, and that's taught me that you need confidence to feel chosen, to believe what you say matters, and to go after what you want.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

What We're Covering:

• The difference between outgoing and confident (they're not the same thing)
• How confidence is inner knowing and trusting yourself, not just being loud
• Why confidence means knowing you're Plan A, not Plan B, in every scenario
• The 3-step process for building genuine confidence over time
• How rejection is usually redirection, not a reflection of your worth
• Why your inner child holds you back from confidence (and how to help them)

Your Empowerment Tools: ✨ Step 1 - Remember You're a Big Deal: Write down all your amazing qualities, personality traits, things you've accomplished that make you think "wow, I can't believe I did that"

✨ Step 2 - Put Yourself Out There: Experience rejection without letting it devastate you - learn that you're usually not the problem, it's often just wrong fit/redirection

✨ Step 3 - Love Your Inner Child: Talk to the younger version of you who's trying not to get hurt: "Hey little [your name], I love you. It's safe to be seen. You're worthy of this."

Key Reframe: Confidence isn't about being extroverted - it's about inner knowing, self-worth, and trusting your process. You are the catch, not the option. You're Plan A in jobs, friendships, love, and opportunities. When things don't work out, it's usually redirection or a signal to look inward at self-sabotage patterns.

The 3 C's of Manifestation:

• Confidence: In yourself and the universe/God supporting you
• Clarity: Knowing exactly what you're calling in
• Certainty: Your doubts don't stop manifestations from coming

Today's Affirmation: "I'm worthy. I am confident in myself, in who I am and what I offer. I am the prize. I am the gold. I am not Plan B, I am Plan A. I am confident in everything I do. I get to be a confident person, and it makes me an even better person when I'm confident."

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